Here come the brides…

On August 8, 2008 (yep, on 08/08/08), Gift Idea Mom and her sweetheart ran off to Vegas and tied the knot. We didn’t actually runnnn…. it was a well-planned, well-orchestrated event. The vows were said on the west lawn of The Flamingo hotel and the dinner party that followed was at Vegas’ newest Batali restaurant, Table 10. I had originally thought it would only be my fiancee and possibly a few very close family members. It turned into quite the event with friends and family flying to Vegas from all over the country. We were thrilled to have so many there for such a special day and consider this a public thank you if any of you are reading this today.  Upon our return home, we had another ‘wedding’ of sort, no vows this time, just a huge party with those that couldn’t make it to Vegas. Great fun.

Ironically enough, the first question I’ve received since my return was about a gift for a bride and groom -

Hi Gift Idea Mom,

A couple friend of mine is getting married in October. They are both at their second marriage and in their fifties. I have no clue what to give them as a gift. To a younger couple I would just give money, but to them it may not be proper, they are also not hurting for cash.

Any thoughts?
G.

Hi G,
I had many, many people asking me what we needed/wanted as a wedding gift.  I truly wanted nothing more than the presence of my friends and family, but many wanted to give us presents as well.  You don’t mention a price range, so I’ll try to include a few gifts from a variety of price levels.

A striking gift that we received we was a Jeroboam of champagne. This giant (equivalent to four bottles)  came crated in a wooden crate. We used this bottle during our reception and its presentation and opening became part of the event.  Your local wine merchant should be able to help you out with this one.

Deluxe Scrabble Set

A really clever gift we received was this 2 Person Survival Kit Emergency Disaster Preparedness 72 Hour Backpack Kit Not exactly a romantic gift, but the practicality was much appreciated.  We’ve also had some fun with this upscale version of a classic,  Deluxe Turntable Scrabble Set

A lovely set of Riedel Vinum Burgundy/Pinot Glasses makes a good ‘couple’ gift, especially paired with a bottle of wine and wrapped into a basket.

And finally, when we arrived back from our honeymoon, there was a lovely picnic hamper filled Dean & Deluca breakfast goodies.  Such a nice gesture sent by one of our wedding guests.

I hope these ideas give you a good start. Let me know a little bit more about their interests and I can give you a few more specific ideas. If you’re hesitant about giving cash, perhaps a Gift Certificate would be more appropriate.

Good luck and have a great time at the wedding!

GIM